Is it realistic to promise an eternal love?

11-03-18 21:17

No matter how perfect you and your spouse are perfect for each other, familiarity produces boredom. While this is a normal process, monotony often leads to a deep want to find something more exciting and ultimately can lead to divorce.

The critical component of an extramarital affair is not the sex, it is the element of surprise. Everyone loves the excitement of the unknown and an extramarital affair can provide that excitement while preserving the loving relationship of a marriage. In most cases, affairs are not begun in an effort to undermine a marriage, as neither participant is looking to leave their current spouses. However, they do provide the spark that many married people are looking for. Just the idea of participating in something as taboo and illicit as an extramarital affair can be enough to add a thrill to someone life.